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St. Kassia's Scribe's avatar

This definitely rings true to me.

At the same time I do sense the need to “be my own person” and that’s actually the reason I am here on Substack, writing. But that person isn’t who I was before motherhood, she's totally different as a mother (and I would say also as a wife/homemaker, they’re all quite linked). I’ve always loved writing, but never published anything I really cared about before. Now, I feel much more confident and solid in myself and my thoughts and opinions, wile also being welcoming of others. The maiden has died so the mother could be born, but in a way I was happy for her to die; she was so sad and insecure. Who I am now is much stronger, more vibrant, powerful and effective.

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Rachel's avatar

Well - you're just at the beginning! Thanks for your thoughts, very interesting to read. I'm nearly 39 years in to motherhood and now a grandmother as well, a whole added dimension, almost never discussed. It's all a continuing process of discovery, challenge and growth - and yes, pain as well as joy.

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